Girls, sometimes it only right and proper
that you give that guy the finger. Let me rephrase: Ladies it is OK to give the
young man that finger. Here is why.
When a man decides that they are ready to
settle down with you and get married. It is no small thing. Guys today more
than ever are quite, loose, randy and hugely irresponsible. They want you but
they don’t want the whole of you. They are not ready to commit.
But not every guy is like that. Many are
actually good. Yes they struggle. Yes they don’t have it all figured out. And yes,
they have imperfections. They don’t think they are the best thing to have
happened to you, many think they actually don’t deserve you. They are fully
aware of their imperfections, inabilities, and in some cases deep seated
insecurities.
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| Give him the finger! |
They also see you. You are the envy of the
community. You make them feel complete. You excite them, you rock their world, you
give him sound advice. You are the firm shoulder they lean on. You are smart
and witty.
They may also see your other side. The imperfect
side. I’ll not elucidate on that side because you know it very well. Even then,
the guys have decided to settle with you.
It’s never a simple decision for a guy to
get married. We give up alot. We lose friends [especially girl friends – to mean
female friends]. We exchange our best friends for you. We leave our parents
homes – yes we too have parents who love and think the world about us! We lose
our freedoms / rights. We even lose part of our identity.
And for all this we ask for that finger. Of
course with it we are asking for your heart.
But many times, when he’s asked for the
heart, hence the finger, the girl suddenly feels sweet. She plays hard to get. She
suddenly starts to think of all the others who may also pop the question. She
considers the deal for so long that the guy’s deep seated insecurities start to
surface...
Girls, if the stars are aligned for you.
Ask yourself the basic questions, the core questions and once you are comfortable
with the answers. Go ahead and give him the finger. Don’t wait to have all the
answers to ALL the questions. I can promise you won’t have them even if you
wait for a lifetime.
We all settle for the core values. The rest is left to God and community.
Again I say, Girls, if he meets those core
values, it’s OK to give him the finger!
1 comment:
"We even loose our Identity" Identity? Dude please, the only person who get to loose their identity is the FEMALE. And you guys think its such a big deal when you pop the qn. FYI, the FEMALE has probably been waiting for this like forever and with you taking your sweet time to pop the qn. Well, get it from me, if I take my sweet time to give you the finger, it's because I want you to sweat for it and actually make sure you are serious about the question and not just wanting ti settle because you're suddenly running out of time. Am gonna have you Mr. Diamond on both knees before I say yes ;)!
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